Gender Neutral Engagement Rings
Updated 10 November 2026
An engagement ring can be a plain band, a solitaire or something full of colour. At Lily Arkwright, you can start with the details you enjoy wearing. Our gender-neutral jewellery leaves the choice of shape, finish and sparkle up to you.
The Lily Arkwright Altair Ring combines rectangular stones in a neat, repeating pattern.
What makes an engagement ring gender neutral?
There is no single gender-neutral ring shape. A delicate halo, a wide band and a bright gemstone can all belong here. The point is to choose a ring you like, without treating any particular design as belonging to one gender.
If you like coloured gemstones, start with a shade you already enjoy wearing. Or compare a few colours on your hand and see which one catches your eye.
The Lily Arkwright Lovetta Trilogy Ring pairs a blue centre stone with two tapered side stones.
Choosing the details you like
Think about the details you like in jewellery you already own: a smooth polished surface, a strong outline or a little extra sparkle. You might prefer wider bands, brushed finishes, or the colour of sapphire and alexandrite.
Try a few widths and setting heights if you can. Notice how the ring feels when you bend your fingers and whether you would like to wear it beside another band. A design can look quite different on your hand from how it looks in a photograph.
If you are choosing together, your rings do not have to match. Talking about what each of you likes can help you decide how to design your dream ring. If you are still weighing up a surprise proposal, our guide explores if you should pick your engagement ring together.
Ring styles and personal details
A small detail can make a familiar style feel more personal. A hidden halo adds a row of small stones beneath the centre stone, where the detail can be seen from the side. If you have a particular combination in mind, our bespoke design service is a place to discuss what is possible.
The Lily Arkwright Hidden Halo Ring Upgrade adds detail beneath the centre stone, as shown in this side view.
The Lily Arkwright Octavia Statement Band mixes angled rectangular stones with smaller round stones.
Other jewellery options
If you are also looking for jewellery to wear alongside your ring, there are tennis bracelets, unisex eternity bands set with lab-grown diamonds, and pendant necklaces to consider. Choose pieces you would enjoy wearing on their own, as well as together.
The Lily Arkwright Monaco Tennis Bracelet has a continuous row of round stones.
Choosing your stone
You can also compare lab-grown diamonds and moissanite gemstones as you decide which stone suits your ring. For more detail, read our Moissanite Guide, alongside our Lab Diamond Guide.
If you would like help narrowing down the options, book a consultation with our jewellery team to talk through your preferences.